build: disable RDMA support in RPMs by default
Rather than curiously disable RDMA support by default in configure and
enable it by default in RPM builds, streamline the default
configuration to always turn RDMA support off. It can be enabled in
RPM builds with "--with rdma".
Signed-off-by: Florian Haas <florian.haas@linbit.com>
Reviewed-by: Steven Dake <sdake@redhat.com>