build: set RDMA related _LIBS and _CFLAGS only if building with RDMA support
Having to force {ibverbs,rdmacm}_{LIBS,CFLAGS} looks positively odd;
so this may warrant further review. However, they are definitely not
needed if building without RDMA support.
Signed-off-by: Florian Haas <florian.haas@linbit.com>
Reviewed-by: Steven Dake <sdake@redhat.com>