fix(tfserver): pass the friendly damage setting to the server (#5186)
The default config defined damangeallies, but the start parameters read
damageallies, so the server was always started with an empty
-IsCanFriendDamage= value. Rename the variable so the setting reaches
the server.
Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Co-authored-by: Daniel Gibbs <me@danielgibbs.co.uk>