fix(stop): send one stopped alert for GoldSrc servers (#5200)
Stop mode 9 (GoldSrc) sent the stopped alert straight after sending
"quit", without checking the server had stopped. GoldSrc restarts on
"quit", so the tmux session was then killed as a fallback and that path
sent the stopped alert again.
The GoldSrc path now only sends the alert when the server has really
stopped, so the tmux fallback sends the single alert.
Fixes #4772